Slut: a “how to” on being a whore in the 21st century¬†

“She needs love from her parents” “She’s going to hell” “Here’s some attention! Stop being a hoe” These are but a few phrases I saw as I scrolled through the timeline of an 18year old girl whom had just posted her body under the hashtag #BodyPosi on Twitter. For those unfamiliar, BodyPosi is a movement…

Sex, Flyouts, and God: The LDR

Admittedly, I’m a cynic about Long Distance relationships. Having had my own fail I typically frown my face at the thought. While I understand the issues I had within myself and my relationship that led to its failure I commend those that try, simply for trying.¬† No matter how many times I hear it or…

Nasty time

It bothers me that so much of my identy is attached to my virginity. I can’t go a day without worrying about losing it..being judged for it …or worse, rejected after its gone. I can’t make a move or express myself as a sexual being without the fear of a man questioning my integrity because…

I have Issues

Testing …. trying. I find myself constantly testing the patience of the men around me. As soon as any drops of real emotion dew it’s like … I freak out. I don’t want it..it’s scares me. I’ll make a fight or fuss and fit until he’s forced to leave just so I have an excuse…

Waiting

Last week I made the decision to wait until marriage to have sex. I never understood what the term “freaky virgin” meant, a bit oxymoronic to me in truth, but that’s been the custom name for me it seems. While men revel at the idea of dating a virgin seldom do they realize the restraint…

On womanhood and other taboos

As of late I have found myself having to defend My sexuality. Not in the normal sense of defending homosexulity vs heterosexuality but in the sense of maintaining my autonomous sexuality while still in a relationship. Is there a way to keep my sexy while staying in the confines of sexuality defined by my partner…

A girls guide to keeping a man:

#1 Don’t talk sh*t about him to your friends and they won’t disrespect or mock your relationship.Even if you don’t intend it the more people know about your relationship the more influence they have in it #2 Pick and choose your battles instead of nagging about every thing. Nagging won’t make him do what you…

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Originally posted on Kathryn L Christopher:
Fucking him made you feel lonely. Oh, dear, did you know how to love? How to hold his fingers, tattoo their prints on your skin? If all your knees know is the floor how could you have ever hoped to stand with him, run with him, you bend your…

Virgin sex

I don’t understand why people are so narrow minded about sex. Having sex doesn’t make you a woman and being sexy or comfortable in your sex doesn’t make you and less of one. We need to remove stigma and broaden our perception of sexuality, virginity, and acceptability… Why is there such a sterility associated with…

From the girls

From the girls who perk in the chill and frown with age: Why is it every depiction of sex focuses on the woman? Not her pleasure but her victimization, her domination. What about the man?  Why do I constantly have to be reminded of my “position” even in the one act that’s suppose to level…