Is He Your Husband ???

“Women replace their father and men replace their mother in marriage. I did not mean literal 2.0 versions you twits.When I said a man replaces his mother with a woman I meant her love, her kindness, her support and loyalty not an actual mother.When I say a woman replaces her father with a man I…

Sex, Flyouts, and God: The LDR

Admittedly, I’m a cynic about Long Distance relationships. Having had my own fail I typically frown my face at the thought. While I understand the issues I had within myself and my relationship that led to its failure I commend those that try, simply for trying.  No matter how many times I hear it or…

Nasty time

It bothers me that so much of my identy is attached to my virginity. I can’t go a day without worrying about losing it..being judged for it …or worse, rejected after its gone. I can’t make a move or express myself as a sexual being without the fear of a man questioning my integrity because…

I have Issues

Testing …. trying. I find myself constantly testing the patience of the men around me. As soon as any drops of real emotion dew it’s like … I freak out. I don’t want it..it’s scares me. I’ll make a fight or fuss and fit until he’s forced to leave just so I have an excuse…

Number 9 dream

If I loved you once, I love you again That was all he said before things went black. But before the love and before the dark came the visions of a man in a white suit hitting the water.. The river consumed him as he sank and soon the white of his attire was too…

A girls guide to keeping a man:

#1 Don’t talk sh*t about him to your friends and they won’t disrespect or mock your relationship.Even if you don’t intend it the more people know about your relationship the more influence they have in it #2 Pick and choose your battles instead of nagging about every thing. Nagging won’t make him do what you…

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Originally posted on Kathryn L Christopher:
Fucking him made you feel lonely. Oh, dear, did you know how to love? How to hold his fingers, tattoo their prints on your skin? If all your knees know is the floor how could you have ever hoped to stand with him, run with him, you bend your…

Virgin sex

I don’t understand why people are so narrow minded about sex. Having sex doesn’t make you a woman and being sexy or comfortable in your sex doesn’t make you and less of one. We need to remove stigma and broaden our perception of sexuality, virginity, and acceptability… Why is there such a sterility associated with…