Is He Your Husband ???

“Women replace their father and men replace their mother in marriage. I did not mean literal 2.0 versions you twits.When I said a man replaces his mother with a woman I meant her love, her kindness, her support and loyalty not an actual mother.When I say a woman replaces her father with a man I…

Sex, Flyouts, and God: The LDR

Admittedly, I’m a cynic about Long Distance relationships. Having had my own fail I typically frown my face at the thought. While I understand the issues I had within myself and my relationship that led to its failure I commend those that try, simply for trying.  No matter how many times I hear it or…

What Are We?

At some point in time every girl has asked herself some variation of the question “what are we” so when I got the question “What comes after talking? How does the conversation shift to let’s take this to the next level?” I wasn’t surprised at all. The obvious answer would be a relationship but the…

Nasty time

It bothers me that so much of my identy is attached to my virginity. I can’t go a day without worrying about losing it..being judged for it …or worse, rejected after its gone. I can’t make a move or express myself as a sexual being without the fear of a man questioning my integrity because…

I have Issues

Testing …. trying. I find myself constantly testing the patience of the men around me. As soon as any drops of real emotion dew it’s like … I freak out. I don’t want it..it’s scares me. I’ll make a fight or fuss and fit until he’s forced to leave just so I have an excuse…

A girls guide to keeping a man:

#1 Don’t talk sh*t about him to your friends and they won’t disrespect or mock your relationship.Even if you don’t intend it the more people know about your relationship the more influence they have in it #2 Pick and choose your battles instead of nagging about every thing. Nagging won’t make him do what you…