The perks of being a virgin

It is easier to judge, condescend, and ridicule a women for their past mistakes than it is to sit and listen and understand.  Dare I say … relate ? Forgive? Seldom do we ask girls why they make certain decisions regarding sex, relationships, and partners. Even fewer do we seek to understand their history and the…

Guess What Didn’t Lead to a Perfect Life?

Originally posted on terra firma:
My wonderful daughter Torey wrote a guest post continuing the dialogue about modesty and sexuality. She is one smart woman and I’d be glad to be a part of her life even if we weren’t related. Check it out:: My life isn’t perfect because I didn’t have sex before marriage. Seems like…

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Originally posted on Kathryn L Christopher:
Fucking him made you feel lonely. Oh, dear, did you know how to love? How to hold his fingers, tattoo their prints on your skin? If all your knees know is the floor how could you have ever hoped to stand with him, run with him, you bend your…

Virgin sex

I don’t understand why people are so narrow minded about sex. Having sex doesn’t make you a woman and being sexy or comfortable in your sex doesn’t make you and less of one. We need to remove stigma and broaden our perception of sexuality, virginity, and acceptability… Why is there such a sterility associated with…

Untitled

I don’t have much words today to be honest. I’ve just been asleep or laying in bed. I only moved to pee and come to work. No appetite not hungry just … tired. I tried to write but I have no words I have no inspiration my song is gone…I’m a Jay that’s can not…

Dear Forbes: This Is Why Iggy Azalea Doesn’t “Run” Hip-Hop

Originally posted on Olivia A. Cole:
The Internet is currently on fire following a piece on Forbes that was initially titled “Hip Hop Is Run By A White, Blonde, Australian Woman” but was changed after the backlash forced Forbes to realize what an absurd claim they were making. The new title is “Hip Hop’s Unlikely…

From the girls

From the girls who perk in the chill and frown with age: Why is it every depiction of sex focuses on the woman? Not her pleasure but her victimization, her domination. What about the man?  Why do I constantly have to be reminded of my “position” even in the one act that’s suppose to level…

Cleanse

So I’ve decided to go on somewhat of a spiritual cleanse… The last few days have been hard. Full of ups and down with my emotions raging inside of me. I feel constantly torn. Pressures. Boxed in. Censored. But I’m not sure if it’s me doing it to myself by letting others stifle me ..or…

Langu Pangu

Words can speak and create or destroy life. Your words change yr perception  therefore what you SPEAK is what you LIVE is what you DO. Applying negative language to yr relationship is what will become of it. You say yr partner is a thot yr going to see every thing they do as “thot-like” because…